Take a small group of men and women to a meeting in a room they’ve never been in before. They will typically find a place in the room that is comfortable for them. Some sit at the front, others as the back, some in the center and still others to one side. If the meetings cover several sessions over several days, it’s likely that most of those who attend will gravitate to the same seats. In most cases, it’s not for functional reasons, but for comfort. We tend to declare our place in a room and hold on to it for the duration.
Habits simplify life. They reduce stress by making choices for us. We don’t have to think about how we are going to commute to work, which seat we will occupy at the kitchen table, how we’re going to groom ourselves to face the world, or how we might spend a typical Monday evening.
When habits become entrenched in a larger community, they take on the form of traditions. American families adopt certain behaviors associated with holidays such as Thanksgiving and Christmas. When parents or grandparents die, the family unit struggles to find a new equilibrium that will accommodate the current realities while preserving something of the past.
Religious bodies also develop habits that bring a sense of normalcy and stability into the lives of those in the church community. While such traditions can have value, they can become problematic. Jesus addresses this tendency in Matthew 15. The Pharisees criticize Jesus’ disciples for not performing a ceremonial washing of their hands before they eat. Jesus does not directly defend his followers. Instead, he castigates the Pharisees for elevating their traditions above the teaching of Moses. They set aside the command to honor father and mother by supporting them and put the money in a fund earmarked ‘devoted to God’ instead. Jesus faults them, concluding “Thus you nullify the world of God for the sake of your tradition.” (See Matthew 15:6.)
Having been involved in the lives of church for several decades, I’m convinced that one of the greatest threats to living the Christian life in community is traditions. The things that we do that make us comfortable and make faith predictable so quickly become sources of contention and conflict. Church members have been known to go for each other’s throats because a picture, piano, or other visible object was moved. Most of the readers of this blog can think of examples of small changes that caused great animosity.
This resistance to change and reaction to messing with traditions is not limited to the church, of course. It’s part of the human condition. You can find similar conflict erupting at a VFW meeting, a city council meeting, at a PTA gathering or at a family reunion. But if there is one place where tradition wars should not sidetrack the mission it is the church of Christ.
The protection of traditions among people of faith not only causes conflict, it can also trump truth. Jesus points out that the Pharisees were nullifying the word of God in their behavior. What God said was secondary to the preservation of the threatened tradition. When men win in this battle, God’s truth often suffers. Issues include the appropriate musical instruments, the dress of church leaders, the schedule or length of service, and the practice of baptism or communion. When God’s word is no longer the touchstone of our faith and when his mission is no longer the center of our thinking, other issues become fertile battlegrounds between believers. The smoke of contention and custom obscure the face of God and the church goes to war against itself.
Jesus words comprise a call to hold traditions with an open hand. Though they bring us great comfort, they are not the foundation of our faith. Though they promise safety, clinging too tightly to them brings death. Jesus’ truth and his call to seek him first must be primary in the thinking of mature Christ-followers.
