If you are going to be accepted or popular in the American culture, you need to become skilled at using marshmallow words. These are words that never have an edge to them or any sharp angles. They are words that do not make contrasts or clear comparisons.
Marshmallow words are soft, pliable, and inoffensive. They don’t dare to call behavior into question. They find good in everything. They resist calling people to a single standard of living because some may find that standard personally unpleasant or objectionable.
Marshmallow words are the currency of political correctness. Universities are skilled in indoctrinating collegians in their use. Academia fosters a culture where the only people branded as outlaws are those who dare to speak otherwise. Social lepers in our day are those who speak of absolutes, of truth and error, and of religious clarity.
But marshmallow words go far beyond political correctness. They quietly become the norm in all our minds. They prompt us to speak in relative terms about things we value. They blur the difference between what is true and what is not. In the church they rob us of the courage to face obvious hypocrisy, falsehood, compromise, and sin. They turn the sword of the Word of God into a useless Styrofoam toy incapable of doing any serious work.
The infection of this kind of language cripples our ability to speak truth in the culture. It exchanges the voice of the prophet for the whimper of youngster intimidated by a pack of bullies. It has made great inroads into Christ’s church today. Truth becomes an opinion. Issues of life and death become commentary. The razor sharp contrasts that we must understand to live righteously and follow Christ faithfully disappear. Marshmallow words take their place. And they are everywhere. I shudder sometimes to see its influence in my own heart.
When the truth of God grips the hearts of his people, there is a change in the way we think and speak. Marshmallow words will no longer do. It’s not a change to bitterness, rage, condescension, or acrimony. It’s the willingness to speak truth in a culture where truth is unwelcome. It’s the courage to speak truth in my own heart when marshmallow words would feel better. It’s the love to speak accurately within the Church when marshmallow words would be much less dangerous. It’s not the language of pride, or self-righteousness, or superiority. It’s the return of the language of reality that permeates the pages of God’s revelation in the Bible.
Here’s an example. In Ezekiel 18:4 God claims, “For every living soul belongs to me.” In that radical statement God asserts that he is the exclusive Lord and Master over every person on the planet. They do not belong to Allah, Buddha, or themselves. The claim is that every human being on the planet is the property of the one God who revealed himself to mankind in the pages of the Old and New Testaments. This challenges any other competing claim—no matter how sincerely held—as false. While we are called to respect the people who claim allegiance to other beliefs, we are not called to respect systems of belief that God labels as false. There is no virtue in whitewashing error. Secular materialism, liberation theology, Mormonism, Islam, and Taoism are wrong. And we must gain the courage to make such statements again. Where faiths collide, we must call thoughtful people to compare and contrast the core documents and the founders. Jesus Christ and the Bible can easily withstand such scrutiny. Marshmallow words, on the other hand, reduce everything to a white mess held together by some sticky goo.
As difficult as it is to think and speak differently than the surrounding culture, Christ-followers must do so. It is the only way we can be faithful followers of the message we bear and the God we seek to serve.
