I was in a conversation the other day with someone who wanted an outcome to go their way regardless of what scripture mandates. “There is no right and no wrong,” they said. (In the wider scope of life I understand they believe in some of the key absolutes of scripture.) But when following God began to restrict a choice in a place where their desires were strong, this person desperately wanted to be sure that God would not infringe on their choice.
It’s easy to let our desires rule and to look for some way to squeeze God’s approval into the choices of life. I find myself justifying purchases of things I don’t really need, looking for ways to leverage them in some kind of “service” to God. Maybe I can buy that Garmin GPS and loan it to a visiting missionary who needs to visit supporters in my community?
While it’s true that God does not speak specifically into every decision of life, there are times when his guidelines are clear and we tend to ignore them.
An incident in 1 Kings illustrates our tendency to look for “new” truth that fits our desires.
In 1 Kings chapter 13, a prophet is sent to Jeroboam who God put in charge of the 10 tribes of Israel. The prophet, only identified as the “man of God” tells Jeroboam that because he constructed a religious system of his own to compete with the authentic worship at the temple in Jerusalem, his kingdom will fall.
Jeroboam invites the prophet to linger for a meal and receive a gift. But the prophet refuses because God forbid him to do that. (Verse 9) On his return, another man comes to him claiming to be a prophet with new revelation. He’s told it is now OK to eat with this man instead of returning home. The “man of God” yields to the invitation. He buys into the lie.
To the surprise of both, the “man of God” and his host, God speaks judgment on the “man of God” because he did not stick to the original revelation. His life is cut short before he returns home. I’m startled by the severity of God in this case. But the warning is clear. When God speaks, he means what he says and does not contradict himself.
Many spokesmen offer alternate explanations of eternal truths. They promise us that we can accommodate our ethics, morality, sexual orientation, or financial practices to the culture without spiritual repercussions. They encourage us that in God’s grace we can follow our natural desires and enjoy God at the same time. These voices, which come from the church as well as the culture, are appealing because they link to our inclinations. But in the end we will discover that God does not contradict himself and that the narrow way of his truth is the only way to life.